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Word4Today Daily Bible Devotional

by Bob and Debby Gass

‘A time to gain, and a time to lose.’ Ecclesiastes 3:6 NKJV

How can you help young siblings navigate life’s losses?

1) Don’t underestimate their capacity for grief. Young children are often the forgotten grievers. Their pain is real and intense; recognise and validate it.

2) Don’t avoid talking about the loss when they’re present. Excluding them from mourning denies them the opportunity for support and an increased understanding of their loss. Include them in the family’s collective grief experience.

3) Encourage them to share their feelings about the loss. Teach them that being real is more important than being strong, and confirm that their feelings matter. Very young children have a limited understanding of the meaning, permanence, and irreversibility of death. They can only talk about it briefly and concretely. Older children understand its meaning and should be encouraged to talk about it.

4) Make allowance for each child’s personality. Our personality determines our grieving style. Quiet or shy children may need their own space; children who are more outspoken may need to be verbal and sociable. Dependent children need strong adults around them; independent ones can handle a lot on their own.

5) Communicate realistically with them. Take care not to use language that confuses children. ‘Dad has gone home…fallen asleep…passed away…gone to his rest,’ etc. Speaking of death as the end of this physical life is Biblical, clarifies the significance of the loss, and allows children to ask questions that matter to them. Children can handle loss, and they can understand that everlasting life is God’s great solution, and one day we will join our loved ones in heaven (see John 14:2-3).

SoulFood: Judg 16:1 – 19:15 Mark 8:1-13 Ps 119:129-136 Pro 18:21

word4today an adaptation of The Word For Today is authored by Bob and Debby Gass and published under licence from UCB International Copyright 2024

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